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Sometimes, we’d encounter them stepping aboard a snorkeling catamaran from the beach, not a stitch of clothing in sight. We tried to keep our relationship new and exciting, but there were patterns that were slowly destroying it. He thought it was me and I thought it was him. “You never initiate”, he would say. “You are not affectionate enough”, I would retort. We would argue, he would become angry and pull away and I would withhold sexually, sometimes for weeks. Eventually one of us would breakdown the barrier by giving in and apologizing. We would have sex and then get on with our day to day, really not diving into any depth about what all the tension was about in the first place. It would slowly begin to build again, the same routine starting with the accusations. This pattern went on for a number of years. At one point, after another rollercoaster of no talking, no sex and no communication, I became increasingly concerned about how long this would continue. It was exhausting and we just couldn’t seem to break free. Something was seriously wrong. Then he broke the news.
Together with his wife, Mallory (also not her real name), 36, Gordon hosts a podcast, Casual Swinger (the two honeymooned at Hedonism II 10 years ago and are “in the lifestyle”). Some time in the morning, the ship pulled up offshore Rangiroa Atoll, where dolphins are known to frolic. Visitors staying at hotels and resorts within Jamaica’s two “tourism corridors” denoted by the government are required to stay on property for the duration of their stay. His confidence and muscular body were all the convincing I needed to accept his offer, and I did not regret it when I was moaning in ecstasy in his room a few hours later. Some older people like going on cruises. Others hightail it to early-bird specials. Then there are the ones who use their golden years to experiment sexually outside their relationship. Meet two such senior swingers, Mark and Deanna.
Sex in Chains (1928)
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There is nothing like getting out of the rut that is everyday home life and moving into a space designed to maximise fun and pleasure to bring a couple closer together. SaturdayIn reopening our tourism industry, we had to make sure that we did this in a way that made it safe and secure not just for the arriving tourists but for every Jamaican, and in particular for the tourism industry workers,” Donovan White, director of tourism for the Jamaica Tourist Board, said in a phone interview.